You can only imagine my dismay and shock last fall when the honor choir director mentioned that the choir would be performing in Disneyland. WHAT??? I HAD to go to the "happiest place on earth".
Long story short, I agreed to put aside my feelings for Disneyland to accompany Amanda and Daniel on their choir trip. We would stay with Doug's Uncle Frank, which was a bonus. We decided that we might as well make it a 5-day ticket because it would probably be our only trip to Disneyland-ever!!!
For the past 5 months, I have been avoiding thinking about the whole trip. I would deal with it when the time came. I knew that I was going to support the kids and that we would be there as a family. Doug was so excited about the trip, and his enthusiasm was starting to rub off. Unfortunately, the week before we were suppose to go, his assistant took a "stress leave", so he couldn't go. He had to stay home to do his job and her job (payroll).
The "happiest place on earth" wasn't looking too happy at this point. Five days in the forbidden place with three kids with different needs and interests-by myself.
Fortunately for all of us, Martha Patten agreed to come with us on our trip. She was awesome. She stepped in as a parent/grandparent and was an enormous help and lots of fun, even when Stephanie threw up everywhere. (Thanks, Martha)
The first day or two were a bit rough. Stephanie spiked a high fever and threw up. She continued to be sick for a few days. I was overwhelmed by the stimulus as soon as we entered the gates. Too many choices, noises, people, lines!
The last part of the trip actually went well. I figured the parks out and realized that Disneyland is not a thrill park. No major rides for me to run to and ride over and over. It is all about the fantasy. Stephanie started feeling better and enjoyed meeting the characters. The kids met up with friends from school and went off discovering things together. Martha and I got great exercise as we walked and talked each day. On Friday, we clocked in at over 37,000 steps (ten miles).
In the end, I did enjoy my trip to Disneyland. The kids had a great time with their friends and each other. They did a fabulous job on their choir performance. Stephanie got better and enjoyed the stroller. If you ask her what her favorite ride was at Disneyland, she will say that it was the stroller ride. I learned that I can enjoy the unknown and relax and enjoy the chaos. Martha got to play the washboard in a band.
Yes-it was a good trip full of happy memories and some great pictures. Did I upgrade my tickets to an annual pass? NO-but I may return someday to experience Disneyland with Doug and our grandchildren.